Hello...? Is this thing on?

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 18:04:58 GMT

I really do want to try to start using my DW journal more again. Starting to feel lately like there are things I just... don't want to discuss on tumblr. Or back off from making that publicly accessible, at least.

So, here goes, I guess?

I've had this realization slowly percolating in the back of my mind over the past year or so and this morning it kind of solidified into a working theory. And it's weirding me out just a little because it's a major change in how I interact with media and I'm still not sure what to think about it.

I will own up to the fact that I am a shipper at heart. My gateway drug into a piece of media is almost always a ship. With The Untamed it was Wangxian. With Guardian it was Weilan. With DMBJ it's Pingxie. And once I settle in, I tend to multi-ship, but there's usually one main ship that's my go-to.

But what I've been noticing lately is that I fall out of love with ships, and that's usually my first step to falling out of love with the entire canon. But it's not quite as simple as that? It isn't even that I fall out of love with the actual ship. I fall out of love with the entire idea of shipping within that piece of media.

As near as I can tell, it's some weird intersection of me being aro/ace and my ADHD hyperfixation tendency that's doing it. I will be full bore hyperfixated on a ship for however long that lasts... but then at some point my brain remembers that I'm aro af and I don't REALLY have an interest in romance. And I start to lose interest in the ship that got me into the canon to begin with. And at that point, one of two things happens: either I find a new (usually minor or secondary) ship to hyperfixate on, or I slip totally to the side and hyperfixate on the character I headcanon as aro/ace. Sometimes this happens in a slow slide from one to the other.

In TUD, I hovered in Nielan for a while, then landed on Jiang Cheng. In Guardian, I slipped almost entirely away from the fandom, then circled back to land on Da Qing. And it's just... really interesting to me that this is how my brain is working right now. Because it never used to work that way before. O_o;;;

So, now there's a part of me that is living in constant fear of the fact that I'm going to fall out of love eventually with a ship that is currently consuming me. And I know it will be OK on the other side, because here I am, a little baffled, but otherwise OK... but there's a part of me that still mourns the love I had for those ships and those canons.

And I'm also realizing that I'm almost better off if I CAN'T hyperfixate and hyper-consume fandom stuff for a ship, or if the fandom isn't big enough to produce enough content that I can binge it like that, or if I land on a character, instead of a ship, and can multi-ship from the get-go. Like, in Les Mis (apart from my e/R phase... come on, most of us had one XD) I landed on Courfeyrac (and then Feuilly) fairly quickly, and multi-shipped them pretty much from the get-go. And even though I'm not really producing Les Mis content anymore, I'm JUST as in love with Courfeyrac and Feuilly as I was before.

So, I don't know what any of this means, really. I don't really think it has to mean anything. But I think I may start trying to pay more attention to loving individual characters and less... ships? Because I know THOSE loves will hold past the point where I lose interest in the ship. And that's reassuring. ^_^

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Ah... tumblr.

Wed, 05 Dec 2012 18:08:01 GMT

So many mixed feelings about Tumblr, I don't even know where to begin. Lots of fun pictures. Gifsets are awesome. People say funny things. People say fannish things. People post fannish things.

Problem is... it's really hard to interact with people there. The only way to really get a conversation going is by repeatedly reblogging each other's posts... which gets obnoxious very quickly, especially for anyone unfortunate enough to be following both of you. Only... it's a bit hard to get in fannish conversations around here lately, too. Maybe it's the time of year and everyone's busy with other things. Maybe it's that I just haven't found the right comms for things I'm currently fannish about. I don't know. But I find myself wanting to be more involved in the fannishness on tumblr... and that makes me really antsy because my tumblr links to too many accounts where people I know in RL hang out. Not good. I like my anonymity, thankyouverymuch.

So, I'm creating a second tumblr for fannish things. Don't worry. That doesn't mean I'm leaving. It just means I'm opening a new avenue. Anyone here hangs out on tumblr and wants to know where to find me when I'm there, here's where I'll be hanging out: eirenical.tumblr.com. ^_^

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Beware: The Chibis Have Taken Control!

Hello...? Is this thing on?

Ah... tumblr.